Posts in wellbeing and growth
It's Blue Monday - how are you feeling?

Today is so called ‘Blue Monday’ (a PR exercise for a travel company it seems, dating back to 2005 but useful all the same) and I’m wondering how you’re feeling.

I’m not feeling too blue actually but I did have a bit of a melt down at the weekend and which me realise that I’d been tolerating too much without expressing it. There’s a lot to tolerate at the moment and the rats in our roof are just one more thing!

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On stoicism, anger and women

Stoicism is not a virtue - so said a wise woman recently and I felt something inside me chime. 

So many of us live, often unconsciously, by an outdated, patriarchal, and plain unhelpful (if not dangerous), edict that there is merit in our keeping quiet, not ‘making a fuss’ and being stoical; that we should be ‘sweetness and light’ and get on with life without creating a disturbance; that women are supposed to be ‘ladylike’ and that it’s unattractive to be angry.   

Well stuff that!

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Supporting your wellbeing in winter...

If it wasn’t for Coronavirus we’d all be beginning to celebrate spring and this morning I was musing on this as I walked and feeling annoyed.  We’ve all survived the winter and normally this would be the time for heaving a great sigh of relief and hefting off the shackles- there is so much that is lovely going on out there.   Instead we’re having to dig even deeper to maintain our equilibrium and protect our mental and physical health and loved ones. 

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